Do you have the three photos?
This is the check I run on my own grid before I tweak anything else.
- Is photo 1 a clear, relaxed face — eyes visible?
- Is there a shot of you doing something they could comment on?
- Is there a full-body in clothes you’d wear on a date?
- Do your prompts show a life, something they share, and a joke that sounds like you?
- Are you liking people you’d actually meet — not everyone?
- When you match, do you open from their photo or prompt — not “hey”?
- If they go cold, do you stop chasing?
- Do you ask them out in a handful of messages — not two weeks?
If you’re missing a photo type, shoot that this week. Don’t rebuild the whole app tonight.
Start my plan from what’s missing